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Greg McKendry

I had known him through reputation only until he came to my home a few days before for a dinner party. Out of all the people there, Greg McKendry hung around with me all night and helped me prepare the gumbo and shrimp we were serving.

He was a faithful member of the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church (TVUUC). He taught Dave Ramsey financial classes there. He helped out with maintenance and odd jobs there from time to time. He helped deliver meals to the elderly and shut-ins. He was responsible for having TVUUC host homeless families each month. During these times, families would be given a private room in the church where meals were prepared for them and recreation available to them.

It was from these interactions with the homeless that Greg found a child, a teenager that had been bounced from home to home because of his gender identity. Foster families couldn’t deal with an transgender teenager, but Greg and his wife Barbara took him in. The foster child has since blossomed into a beautiful young woman.

In my life, I can count on one hand the number of people I have met whose actions and life are Christ-like. I count Greg among those people. With a countenance of perpetual joy and caring, he truly emulated the example given by Christ.

In my “professional” life, I’m in a local business networking group and every so often I’ll meet with a member for lunch or coffee and have a visit. Today I met with a person who is a genius in his business life but whose work with the homeless in East Tennessee humbles me to the depths of my very soul. He very much loves and follows his personal Savior, Jesus Christ.

Unaware of my direct connection to this story, he told me of a meeting of community leaders in Maryville, where I live, at large Baptist church. This meeting was to discuss creating a local coalition to assist and minister to the growing homeless population in Blount county. This meeting happened soon after the shooting at Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church (TVUUC).

Upon his arrival and at the commencement of this meeting, the pastor of this church made the following comment:

“I was kind of worried when I heard about the church shooting in Knoxville last week. Then I found out what “universalist” was! Whew! For a minute there I thought we’d lost a fellow Christian, but we got lucky!”

My friend stood up and walked toward the door. When asked why he was leaving, he responded that it was obvious his assistance wasn’t needed. I’m sure his comment was delivered in the most kind and sincere manner – because such is his nature.

I can only imagine what was going through his mind this afternoon when he looked across the table at me as tears welled in my eyes and I choked as I tried to say something. I couldn’t. I hesitated and tried again to speak as I started to sob, “He was the most kind and loving man I had ever met.”

Truly, Greg McKendry was.

For me, I can still see the face of the killer as he walked into the church with Jaime and me. I can still hear the “boom” of the shotgun in my ears and smell the gunpowder in my nose. That first shot which took my new friend’s life as he jumped in front of a group of children to shield them from the buckshot with his large bear-like frame. Nothing can ever erase the images of children running out of the building covered with sacred blood of a man that gave his life for them.

As for Unitarian Universalists, I’d say the majority are Christian – not that it matters. They choose to worship outside the constraints of hateful dogma. They choose social justice and neighborly love as their worship of choice. Sure, there are others that attend: Atheists, Muslim, Wiccan, Hindu, etc., but they all have the same goal: love.

It has been almost three years since the shooting on July 27, 2008.  Greg’s wife, Barbara has passed away from a sudden relapse of cancer. As I sit and type, I wonder, why is it that people like Greg are taken from us when he did so much good and people like this pastor are still with us?

 

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Picture Equality: A True Target Boycott

Much to do has been made lately about donations to anti-gay politicians by national retail chain Target. At the time, there were nation wide calls for a boycott against Target.

This is surprising to many as Target has always seemed to be a gay friendly company. Human Rights Campaign’s 2011 Buyers Guide lists Target with a workplace equality score of 85. Compare that to Walmart’s score of 40. Many communities don’t have any choice for buying discount retail other than Walmart. In communities that do have a choice, the only other option is usually Target.

So what do you do? Buy from the devil that is notorious for treating their employees like garbage, flooding the United State’s retail markets with cheap goods from China, almost single-handedly destroying small town economies, and probably most culpable for a huge trade deficit with China or do you buy from the company that is taking the money you pay them to endorse politicians to take away your civil rights? It’s a difficult choice when the only choice is those two retailers. Myself, I will continue to shop at Target. Walmart gives me the willies.

Early in February, Lada Gaga and Target partnered to offer an Exclusive Deluxe Edition of her new album, Born this Way, with three exclusive tracks. Billboard magazine quoted Lady Gaga on the negotions with Target:

“That discussion was one of the most intense conversations I’ve ever had in a business meeting,” Gaga told the music publication. “Part of my deal with Target is that they have to start affiliating themselves with LGBT charity groups and begin to reform and make amends for the mistakes they’ve made in the past … our relationship is hinged upon their reform in the company to support the gay community and to redeem the mistakes they’ve made supporting those [antigay] groups.”

Apparently, Target couldn’t live by those conditions. They must have the freedom to support anti-gay politicians and legislation. Lady Gaga and Target parted ways on their “exclusive” deal. Again, there are rumblings for a boycott of Target.

Kodak Funsaver

In this day and age a boycott WILL NOT WORK against a national retail chain. First, you cannot guarantee participation and even if you could how much of an impact do you think it would have on Target’s bottom line. I mean the economy is rebounding in slow motion, but wouldn’t a decrease in spending at Target only show as further signs of a weak economy?

No, what the LGBT people and their allies need is the ability to show that the “gay dollar” has a value. You want to have an immediate and impactful affect on their financial reports. You want Target to see, in one day exactly what the gay dollar is worth and yield to ongoing demands for them to cease funding anti-gay efforts.

I’m surprised no one has thought of this before, but here’s how to do it.

First, we need a date. May 23rd, is to be the release date of Lady Gag’s new album. It’s only fitting that we pick that date to make our statement to honor a celebrity that has stood up for us time and time again. It also gives us quite a bit of time to prepare.

Between now and May 22, 2011, start buying the disposable cameras at the check out lane. They might be the Kodak Funsaver or the FujiColor QuickSnap. Your store may vary in what they offer. They range between $5-7 from my experience. On May 23rd, everyone take off to your local Target store and return the disposable camera. It’s as simple as that! This won’t be a boycott, it will be a…hmmmm…a returncott!

If they cost $5 each and 1000 people do this, Target’s financial report will show $5000 in returns on that day for that one item. If 100,000 participate, they will see $500,000. Hey people, that’s half a million dollars! The more that participate, the more impact this statement will have.

FujiColor QuickSnap

Here are some important things to remember though:

  • Target allows returns up to 90 days
  • There is a restock fee on digital cameras, but my local store assures me this does not apply to the disposable camera
  • DO NOT USE CASH OR CHECK! (and who uses checks these days?)
  • Use a debit or credit card. Each transaction costs Target money through their merchant services as a processing and transaction fee.
  • DO NOT USE THE CAMERA! (don’t be dumb)
  • Save your receipt (again, don’t be dumb). The return policy is usually on the back.
  • When you return the item, tell the clerk why you are returning it

Remember, this can only have an impact if there is a lot of participation. You are showing Target that you have money to spend, but you have chosen not to let them keep it. You will probably throw off their inventory and reordering: “Damn! This little cameras are popular lately. Order another 200 for the store.” Of course, after May 23rd, there may be a big sale on disposable cameras.

Share this plan on facebook, tweet it (use hashtag #returncott), email it. It is easy and in the long run it will only cost you a little it of time. However, wouldn’t it be cool to stand in a long line at the return desk on May 23rd watching everyone return a cheap disposable camera?

I’ll leave you with this cute parody:

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MCC Knoxville Pastor Retires

I just received an electronic flyer announcing a tribute to retiring Metropolitan Community Church pastor Rev. Bob Galloway.

You are invited to join us as we celebrate Rev.Bob’s ministry, contributions, and years of serviceto MCC Knoxville. We will honor Rev. Bob through music, guest speakers, and multimedia presentations. Drinks and hors d’oeuvres will be served.

Saturday, April 9, 2011
6:00 pm – 8:00 pm

Metropolitan Community Church
7820 Redeemer Ln
Knoxville, TN

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Calling Out the Troops

Greetings,

First, I want to thank all of the 25,000+ people that have read Carol Ann and Laura’s story and signed the online petition at change.org. When I first created the petition, I wasn’t sure quite how it worked. I always thought that online petitions could have no effect. They aren’t legally binding. Why would the target of the petition care?

I now know.

Each time a new person signs the petition, the petition engine sends an email to all of the various targets listed. As you can imagine, this has a powerful annoyance factor. Even more so, it allowed me to introduce this story to a larger audience. That same audience has taken it upon themselves to spread the story, call American National Property and Casualty(ANPAC), and to fax them as well.

In the first week of the petition, we collected 1500 signatures. This annoyance and small publicity caused ANPAC to offer the Stuttes $610 – quite insulting. A few days later we had 15,000 signatures in addition to faxes and phone calls. ANPAC offered $3500.

It has been a week and activity is slacking. ANPAC has asked FaxZero to longer allow faxes to be sent to ANPAC’s headquarters. The fax problem is gone. ANPAC is now presumably filtering incoming email at their gateway. The email problem is gone.

We are so close to making them negotiate. Here is where I need your help.

Please commit to calling ANPAC and faxing ANPAC at least once this week. They will respond with a prepared statement – that’s okay. Our goal is to tie up their phone lines and fax system until they can no longer stand it. Trust me, if 25,000 of you called and faxed once it would be more than they could handle without adding additional phone lines or support staff.

American National Property and Casualty
1949 E Sunshine St # 3-103
Springfield, MO 65899-0002

Phone: (417) 887-0220
Fax: (417) 887-1801

If you don’t have access to a fax machine, may I suggest http://myfax.com or http://pamfax.biz? These are online fax services. You can sign up for a free trial with no credit card required.

We are so close! Help me claim victory for this family. I can’t do it alone. I need your help.

 

 

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#9 American National Property and Casualty

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That’s right! I have fans.

I only have a few, but out of the top 403 internet service providers to provide traffic to my website over the last month, I wouldn’t have guessed that the object of my disaffection, American Nation Property and Casualty would have been #9 out 403! With 41 visits from their main office in Springfield, MO, I’m guessing the best source of accurate news about their sordid reputation IS RIGHT HERE!

While you nice folks out on the interwebs are reading to find out what happened to Carol Ann and Laura Stutte, American National Property and Casualty is reading to find out what the hell I’m going to do next to annoy them. Because I’m nice and want to play fair, I’m going to give them a heads up.

This week I am going to call on 25,000 volunteers to call and fax your office during business hours. If 1/10 of the people respond, your switchboard and fax machines will be overwhelmed. Better call a temp agency…

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